The month of September is traditionally dedicated to Our Lady of Sorrows.**** Most holy Virgin and Mother, whose soul was pierced by a sword of sorrow in the Passion of thy divine Son, and who in His glorious Resurrection wast filled with never-ending joy at His triumph; obtain for us who call upon thee, so to be partakers in the adversities of Holy Church and the sorrows of the Sovereign Pontiff, as to be found worthy to rejoice with them in the consolation for which we pray, in the charity and peace of the same Christ our Lord. Amen. ********* Seven Sorrows of Mary: • The Prophecy of Simeon. • The Flight into Egypt. • The Loss of the Child Jesus in the Temple of Jerusalem. • Mary's meeting Jesus on the Via Dolorosa (not found in the New Testament) • The Crucifixion of Jesus on Mount Calvary. • Jesus is Taken Down from the Cross. • The Burial of Jesus by Joseph of Arimathea. ***** Our Lady of Sorrows, Pray for us!
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As you put down your hymnal and gathered your things last Sunday, perhaps you looked around and noticed that there were fewer people in the pews than when Mass began.


We have all seen people who leave directly from having received Holy Communion, and wonder if it’s really impossible for so many people to have such urgent business ahead of them that can’t wait an extra 5 minutes, for the final blessing and the recessional hymn.


When we have just received Jesus into ourselves, it is good to take some time to be with Him, rather than bustling about. A moment of thanksgiving is appropriate, and so is greeting those around us in the community of faith, as we exit together. Why move too fast for an enlightening moment?


Most of us have probably done it at least once or twice. We make a beeline for the door with our heads down after receiving communion because we have something important to do.


Sometimes I want to run after the people I see walking briskly out of church straight from the communion line and shake them and say, “You have Jesus inside you! Take a minute to talk to him, to thank him, to love him!”


Do you need some motivation to stay a little longer to attend the entire Mass? Do you know some other people who might?


Here are five reasons to stay until the end of Mass:


1. Communion Is About Communing:

When we receive communion, we receive Jesus himself. When we eat and run, it is like visiting a friend and the moment he is able to sit down and be present to us we jump up and run out the door yelling, “It was so great to spend time with you, see you next week!”


Imagine the Mass as a banquet. During this banquet Jesus is quite busy,  He personally serves us and has no time. But when the feast is over and He has time to sit down with us and chat, we jump up and run out the door yelling, “See you next Sunday!”


Communion is about communing with our Lord and Saviour. In order to commune, we have to actually savour this special time with him and take a few moments to be with our Lord.


2. It’s Not Nice to Be Rude:

Before Mass in the seminary, we have a half hour of silent meditation on the Gospel. I remember, sometimes I was late. I walked quickly in with my head down, embarrassed that everyone can see that I slept in. Recently, I realized that my motivation to be on time should not be to avoid embarrassment but because I am going to see Jesus.


Why are we often more concerned with other people’s reactions than we are with Jesus’? We think, I have to run because I have so much to do, so-and-so is waiting for me! But why is it easy for us to leave early and come late when it is the Creator of the Universe who is hoping to see us?


3. Mass Is Not An Activity on a To-Do List:

Often when I see people running out of Mass, it seems like they are checking off an activity on their to-do list and want to be done with it. The Christian life is not a to-do list. It is an invitation to be in relationship with God. If we are going to Mass out of a sense of responsibility, sure we may be avoiding sin, but barely scraping by in the avoidance of sin is not the calling of our spiritual life. We are called to much more. We are called to relationship, to holiness, to transformation.


4. The Final Blessing Is Important:

On the Day of Atonement, Zechariah, the father of John the Baptist, had the honour of going into the holy of holies on the day the angel told him that he and his wife would have a child. The people eagerly waited outside for him to give them a blessing after he offered incense. When Zechariah came out mute because he did not believe the angel’s message, the lack of a blessing amplifies the dishonour and the tragedy of losing his voice. I am sure the people went home very disappointed.


Blessings are precious. When a priest, who by his ordination is configured to Christ, gives his final blessing, we are being blessed by God himself. If Jesus were standing ready to give us a blessing before we left Mass and went back out into the world, wouldn’t you wait for it? If with final blessing, graces which we asked for during Mass are given to us as God's gift, would not we wait for it?


5. You Get MORE Grace:

According to the Catechism, “the fruits of the sacraments … depend on the disposition of the one who receives them” (CCC 1128). There is a power in the sacraments in and of themselves, but how much of that power seeps into our souls and plays out in our lives depends on our disposition.


If we are rushing out of church after communion, chances are our disposition is not such that we are reverentially aware of the amazing fact that we are consuming the body, blood, soul and divinity of God himself. It’s heavy stuff. And it deserves a disposition of great respect, if only because we all need all the grace we can get.



When we have just received Jesus into ourselves, it is good to take some time to be with Him, rather than bustling about. A moment of thanksgiving is appropriate, and so is greeting those around us in the community of faith, as we exit together. Why move too fast for an enlightening moment?



Five Reasons to Stay 
Until the End of Mass
24 November 2017